After the first generation of 50 is on the race
30 years of reform and opening-up, as time change is not only the "upstairs downstairs, electric light phone" good will, and get married necessary "3 big" : in the 70 s is watches, bicycles, sewing machines; In the 80 s is a refrigerator, TV, washing machine; Now is the car, house, and ticket. Things have changed, but people for the fashion, the trend for the pursuit does not change: because every time "3 big" is the representative of the era. I'm born in 1958, got married in 1985, still be in at that time the oil drilling institute, both the husband and wife added up to a month income 200 pieces of or so, relatively many people tall. But to raise this 3 big also not easy, especially the "big color TV" : 18 inches, the keys of the switch, eight cheap oakley sunglasses channel, and still need to buy a limited supply demand, a color TV set ticket is worth 200 piece, will add 1880 pieces of cash, a year we don't eat not to drink only just can afford. Furniture, refrigerator also be, how to do? Only when "the boomerang kid", not enough to borrow or getting hitched together, put the marriage ". I don't like to be called "the boomerang kid", was also didn't have the word, but my heart is very entanglements: so big (27 years old, at the time, it is a big ge youth), "a wedding depends on parents pay. So then more hope to return parents, compensation parents. Now a lot of time is called the son, tender and only beloved in fact my in the mind is very guilty, and this guilty and entanglements has become my power in work. Whether a family or career, through the "on the", by parents, depend on others to make a thing will make you feel uncomfortable, will be left in the heart of the lingering heart knot. In a speech to the college students to do when I said "men were married by 30 years old is not rational behavior" is also have the reason: 30 years ago generally still does not have the strength NBA Hats of the marriage, also need to depend on parents, need "on the". Now after 80 to "marriageable age", believe that many young people in the "on" and "don't chew" strands between, and its there entanglements, not equal to first with their own minds and industrious hands to spell out a career!
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